Perkembangan Ilham

Alhamdulillah segala puji bagi Allah, 6 Jun 2011 Ilham sudah genap 9 bulan. kalau ikutkan Ilham baru 8 bulan. sebab Ilham lahir semasa 36 minggu di dalam kandungan.

"If your baby was born prematurely (before 37 weeks of pregnancy) you'll probably find that he needs more time before he can do the same things as other babies his age. That's why most babies born prematurely are given two ages by their doctors:

• Chronological age, which is calculated from your baby's date of birth.
• Corrected age, which is calculated from your baby's due date.

You should measure your premature baby's development against his corrected age, not his actual date of birth. Health professionals will assess your premature baby's development from the time he should have been born, and evaluate his skills accordingly.(source:babycenter.co.uk)

Bila baca artikel tersebut, saya begitu yakin sekali yang saya tidak perlu membandingkan perkembangan anak sy dengan baby yg lain. Ianya sgt normal utk membandingkan perkembangan anak kita dgn baby yg lain. Tapi sebenarnya as a mother, kita sgt perlu yakin dgn kebolehan anak kita sendiri. Abaikan kata-kata yg boleh melemahkan semangat kita sbb we should know and believe our child better. Sgt seronok sebenarnya tgk perkembangan anak kita dgn caranya tersendiri. As for Ilham sebenarnya dah banyak yg dia dah buat,contohnya

1. Ilham sgt laju mengensot, sekarang adalah fasa ilham nak merangkak dan duduk dgn sendiri..
2. Ilham dah angkat2 punggung nak merangkak but lepas satu dua langkah dia jatuh balik..tgh fikir cara nak stabilkan diri. go for it my dear son, mama and abi will always support you..
3.Satu yg sy perhatikan, ilham agak peramah orgnya, dia akan menjerit "ahh" menegur org. byk bercakap esp sebut aaa bah..aaa bah...comel la anak mama ni..
4. separation of anxiety dia mmg sgt tinggi sikit esp bila mama dia yg tinggalkan,,kalau tak kne mood dia akan menangis bila ditinggalkan, kalau mood dia ok, tertoleh-toleh tgk mama dia buat kerja.
5.nampak macam sgt manja, tp dia sgt aktif, ..semua benda nak di capai , nak di masukkan dalam mulut-part masuk dalam mulut ni yg seriau sikit.mmg kena perhatikan barang yg dicapai oleh baby, esp barang yg kecil dan tajam, (Ilham pernah termasukkan rubber band dlm mulut dia)

Ilham, mama tulis semua ini utk rujukan mama pada masa hadapan esp bila ilham dah besar, mama will still remember to tell you all those things. dan juga utk ibu-ibu yg mungkin melahirkan anaknya prematurely,.yakin dgn kebolehan anak kita, yg paling penting jgnnnnn compare dgn anak org lain. nasihat utk diri sendiri.

as long as your baby's fine, active then its ok. nothing to worry about.

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